There are big days and there are big days, but April 17 has become the busiest family honor day of the year. Beginning at 12:01 am today Nicholas Keith McLean was born in Des Moines, Iowa. He barely made the new day.
Just ninety-two years previous to that his great-grandfather was born - on the same day! I believe this is the first child/grandchild/great-grandchild born on my dad's birthday.
It is also Sally and Jay's anniversary. Add all this together and it is a SPECIAL DAY for the McLean's!
Congratulations to everyone! What a great day!
Learning about being a grandparent is different from being a parent. Experiences are new, challenging, exciting and responsibilities are not less, but changed. It's all about love and family. And this blog, while intending to be all about a grandpa has morphed into other posts. Still fun to write about...
Showing posts with label joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label joy. Show all posts
Tuesday, April 17, 2012
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
3 Generation Photo - Part 2 (Wordless Wednesday)
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This is our 2nd photo of three generations of McLean's. Tim should note that I finally learned how to use my remove! Taken at Mesa Park in Las Vegas, NV close to our home. |
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Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Brother to Brother
Little Samuel was born this afternoon and his brother got to meet him this evening. The photo, sent by Suzanne just resonated with me as little Chas meets his brother for the first time. You can see in Chas's touching the wonder of he has towards this special new person who is going to change his life forever. It is poignant to view and vicariously touches all of us. Welcome to life Sammy! Your brother will show you the ropes!
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Some Reflection on My New Book
On Wednesday, this week, I received an advance copy of my newest book. It is really an update - new edition - of one I've worked on 2 times before, but it takes almost as much time as writing a full book. The joy of seeing your work in print is almost indescribable. It's a surge of pride, of a job well done, of knowing that someone else will read what you have written - even if it is by assignment from an instructor. It makes up a little for the hours and hours of really hard work of finding, writing, editing, looking for photos, case studies, sidebars and the like. But the real joy is in the writing, no matter how hard it is and whether anyone reads it or not.
I am just starting on another book and I've been a little slow getting going, but receiving this book in the mail has really encouraged me. I'm ready to start writing, organizing, outlining, talking, writing memos (a format I use to get to thoughts). However, the book I just received is special. It was written by a friend and colleague who died about 8 years ago and I was asked to take over the book by the publisher. I selected two great colleagues to work with me, one of which has moved on to other projects, and now we are in our 3rd edition. It was a lot of work moving it from a very traditional format to a newer and more current and contemporary format and content.
Beginning with the last edition I began to include photos and material from our family. For instance my sister, she and her husband are big NASCAR fans, wrote me a first person experience of attending a NASCAR race. In this edition it was moved to be the very first piece anyone reads - it sets the stage for the recreation experience. I also asked our newest daughter-in-law to write a piece on Why I like to write and I turned it into a case study.
In the last edition I had photos of family and of trips I have taken. For example, I asked Jeni to take photos of her children at the water playground near their old home in Aurora, CO and included it. It also included the 2 oldest children of Donna. Some of the photos are shown here. The one to the right not only was used in the book, but also in our large wall mural at Indiana State University as a recruitment for the program.
I've tried to mix it up a little, but not always able to use just family photos. They need to look good and they need to fit the topic. In this edition I had a chance to work on the history chapters and knew I had just the perfect photo as I wrote about families, recreation, and children. This photo of my mother reading "Child's Life" is of a girl I never knew and yet I wish I had. I will talk more about that later. The photo has evoked such strong feelings in me that I struggle to understand them and at the same time feel like I'm seeing my mother in a different way for the very first time. Writing does cause introspection and reflection. I enjoy doing both.
Finally, I've been able to include a couple of my favorite photos, one of which I took below at a convent at a mountain side castle near Sparta, Greece. I was entranced by the scene, serenity, and beauty.
Thanks for allowing me to share some of my experiences in writing. I need to do more of this.
I am just starting on another book and I've been a little slow getting going, but receiving this book in the mail has really encouraged me. I'm ready to start writing, organizing, outlining, talking, writing memos (a format I use to get to thoughts). However, the book I just received is special. It was written by a friend and colleague who died about 8 years ago and I was asked to take over the book by the publisher. I selected two great colleagues to work with me, one of which has moved on to other projects, and now we are in our 3rd edition. It was a lot of work moving it from a very traditional format to a newer and more current and contemporary format and content.
Beginning with the last edition I began to include photos and material from our family. For instance my sister, she and her husband are big NASCAR fans, wrote me a first person experience of attending a NASCAR race. In this edition it was moved to be the very first piece anyone reads - it sets the stage for the recreation experience. I also asked our newest daughter-in-law to write a piece on Why I like to write and I turned it into a case study.
In the last edition I had photos of family and of trips I have taken. For example, I asked Jeni to take photos of her children at the water playground near their old home in Aurora, CO and included it. It also included the 2 oldest children of Donna. Some of the photos are shown here. The one to the right not only was used in the book, but also in our large wall mural at Indiana State University as a recruitment for the program.

Finally, I've been able to include a couple of my favorite photos, one of which I took below at a convent at a mountain side castle near Sparta, Greece. I was entranced by the scene, serenity, and beauty.
Thanks for allowing me to share some of my experiences in writing. I need to do more of this.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Happy Birthday Krissie
Happy Birthday youngest daughter. You have brought a lot of light into our family and we love you for that. It seems like you are always at the center - but that happens a lot when you are the youngest. Have a GREAT Birthday.
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Monday, August 30, 2010
Happy Birthday Suzanne
It seems as if it was only yesterday that we moved to Manhattan, Kansas and JoAnn was 8 months pregnant. Don't ask and I won't tell. It was late evening, JoAnn was putting off going to the hospital since we didn't have any insurance. We were between schools and jobs. Not very good timing on my part, but we only lived 2 blocks from the hospital. In spite of the stress and challenge of moving and the 90 minutes JoAnn spent in labor in the hospital, we ended up with a beautiful little girl who today turns a little older, but I'm not allowed to tell you how much. Like all of our children she has been a delight to us. Enjoy a few photos of her early years.
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Talk about precious, and new. She was just a few days old in this photo. |
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Please note that even at 1 year she couldn't keep her hands off. Without JoAnn grabbing onto her hand it would be chocolate everywhere. |
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You can see she was into construction as a youngster, no wonder she married a civil engineer. |
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Taken at Ledges State Park in Boone, IA, this photo of our three little girls is one of my all-time favorites. |
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Little stinkers. When you are only 13 months apart you are best friends. |
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Sitting in the park in Ames, IA these two kept us busy just trying to keep up. |
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And as a mother of five. She has made us proud. Also, compare her face with the previous photo - there is no mistaking who her. |
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Happy Birthday Sweetheart
Today is my wonderful wife's birthday. She is the most fabulous person in the world. We have been together for 45 years and married 43 of those years. I wanted to share a few of my favorite photos of her. She is wonderful mother, grandmother, partner, and lover. Enjoy the photos and wish her a Happy Birthday. I pulled all of the photos from my flickr account where she has 458 photos and growing.
On the ferry between islands on the Outer Banks, NC with our youngest daughter.
With our 3 oldest daughters in Manhattan, KS when we were going to KSU. Even then she was a magnate for children.
With our oldest grandson, Calvin, and he was showing how he was almost as tall as Grandma. It was our last photo of the two of them together.
Grandma is all about sharing and Bonnie loved the sun glasses look.
She was a 70's girl with the hair, Ajax, dish towel, and a lot of flair!
With all of our daughters and one daughter-in-law in 2010 for Sister's Weekend.
Our marriage in 1967. Just a side note. It was 110 degrees the day we got married. We survived and continue to survive and flourish!
And finally, us last year in Breckenridge at our family reunion!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Dad Is 90 Today (yesterday by the time I got this blogged)
My dad is 90-years old today. It is a major milestone. What's more he is in moderately good health - he can get around, still drives, and loves to be with his daughters, who all live close. JoAnn and I debated coming to the celebration since it is an 8 hour drive and we have to be in another city on Sunday. However, we
had no compelling argument for not coming and so many compelling arguments for being where we belonged. So, at 4 AM this morning we left Las Vegas drove southwest to Barstow and then over the Techappi mountains to Bakersfield and north to Modesto. We arrived in time to surprise Dad - and surprised he was. He had no idea we would be here.


There is nothing better than a lemon cake - at least according to Dad!
One of the great blessings of moving west 3 years ago is the opportunity we have to see our children, my sisters and their families, and my dad and his wife on a more regular basis. It means a lot to us to have the opportunity to see all of them. We have reduced the 2 to 3 day drive time from Indiana to not more than 12 hours. The end result is our ability to spend more quality time with each family. Okay, we still have family in the midwest and may soon have 2 families back there, so our travels east are not over.

You realize of course it is not an official McLean function without food!
I never thought I would see my Dad turn 90, much less that I would be 64. I recognize the influence he has had on my life over those years. I think over the last 15 years I have come to appreciate that influence more and more. All too often we don't apprecite those we love until they have passed, in part because we need to see our own famliies grow in order to truly appreciate the impact our parents have on us. I wish my mother could have lived to see how all of our families have grown, although I know she knows.
We had a light lunch, games of dominos, lemon and chocolate cakes, and more dominos. I also found time for a nap. Even at 90 my Dad is still sharp enough to beat us at dominos and cribbage.
Enjoy the photos from today. There will be more on flickr later.

Dad & Marti looking over the birthday cards.
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Sunday, February 7, 2010
Sally's Last Birthday Hurrah
I know this is late on Sunday afternoon - even for Las Vegas, but we have had a busy day, that of course included a little nap. When you hit your post hippie years (at least that was how Alyssa described me when she saw me in my plaid pants and red shirt) you need more rest. Plus, I discovered we must have taken a vacation from embarrassing our children and I had to hunt hard for photos. Sometime in the 1980s companies quit doing slides and we quit taking photos using slides. Bad idea! Following a diligent and detailed search I've found a few photos to finish off Sally's X1st Birthday. Hey, that's less than half my age or was I not supposed to say that.
Enjoy the photos Sally,
Enjoy the photos Sally,
My personal favorite in this batch is our beach girl from our visits to Alabama, of course coming in the middle of an Indiana winter, Sally got her sunburn. What would she do without her mother?
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